Why and when to choose a longer date

Who doesn't love good food, sharing stories, a few drinks and then a naughty treat afterwards? Or a naughty treat before dinner?

Personally, I am a big big fan of a bit of chit chat, getting to know one another, other than in a horizontal way.

Let's make each other laugh, crack jokes, take the mick out of each other whilst also being able to listen tenderly to each other's heartfelt stories.

By spending more time together, the better we get to know each other - it adds more depth, and makes our time so rewarding.

Why go on longer dates with a companion/escort?

Meeting with someone who holds space for you to be yourself, feel relaxed without any judgement can be an incredibly healing, comforting and enjoyable experience.

We are faced with finding our way in a very superficial society, and are judged for our thoughts, actions, opinions. A meet with me would eliminate all of that. It would just be us, without any past judgement. I get to know you, the version of you, that you wish people would be able to see through to.

Before exploring the possibility of meeting someone for a longer trip, I do recommend meeting with them a few times, to make sure you get along with them. You may not land on the right one the first time. If you'd like to go straight into a longer date - I would be happy to oblige to this as well!

For me, I love getting to know people on a deeper level rather than just superficial. Some may call me a busybody, suppose I'm probably nosier than most, but my goal is to become a part of your life, even if it is just for an hour or 2, but I want to listen to you, and provide escape for you in our time together.

Meeting for a longer period of time gives space for this kind of experience, and allows us to open up to each other.

Now I am in no way a therapist, but for me, what fills me with joy, is getting to listen to people and their troubles, offer potential help, compassion and empathy in my best possible capacity.

What's the best kind of extended date?

This really depends on your own interests and also what kind of setting you enjoy.

- Do you like to get curled up on a bed together, watching Netflix accompanied with some room service?

- Are you a foodie and enjoy trying new foods?

- Do you like to be adventurous and try new things?

- Do you like the living fantasy of going to a lovely hotel with your beautiful girl with you?

Things to consider of course be your personal budget, but I'm sure there are options that would work if you wanted to dip your toe in a longer experience.

A good way to dip your toe would be to go for a coffee date in Glasgow, and then back to mine after!